Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Wake Up and Smell the Sheets



In my garden, I look out on cream and plum-colored dahlias, tiny blue lobelias, tomatoes, basil, and a crisscross of green plastic rope that spans the back lawn. It’s our solar dryer. Some call it a clothesline.
Visitors chuckle, noting that their mothers or grandmothers used to hang laundry. Our 4-year-old grandson, Ryan, lets us know that his mother has a washer and dryer. So do we, we told him, but when we hang the wash, the sun is our dryer and on a summer day, it does a pretty good job.
My friend Judy, who sells real estate, seems slightly appalled at the sight of sheets and underwear gracing the backyard. “You could never do that if your house were on the market!” she says. Others admire our dedication to the environment, but say they couldn’t possibly take the time to hang wash.
The truth: Taking the time is why I do it. Years ago, when my children were small, I started hanging sheets in the summertime because I loved the fresh fragrance of air-dried linens. Later, as I became environmentally conscious, I recognized that a clothes dryer consumes quite a bit of electrical power and can heat a home on a hot summer day. But those are no longer my main reasons. Now it’s about slowing down. As I pin the clothes, I listen to the singing mockingbirds, watch a spinning hummingbird and I pause, imbibing the sounds, scents and shades that fill my garden: rosemary for remembrance, lavender for quietude, thyme for meditation.

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Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Ruminations on my column

Hi, welcome to my new blog. I'd love your feedback.

I've had quite a response to my latest column in j. weekly, titled Religious? Spiritual? What's it all about?

Here's my expansion on that theme:

Some of my best friends are spiritual but not religious, and vice versa.  My parents were good people--they helped others in need and followed the Golden Rule-- but they had no use for religion OR spirituality. Meanwhile, I know of religious people who do nothing to better the world.

I am not opposed to living with a spiritual component, which can provide the energy for doing the "work" that our faiths ask us to do. For some people, a free-form spirituality can provide the impetus to spur mitzvot. It  can involve taking AND giving back. But we live in a world with many takers and we need more givers.

That's the point of my column. That, and the importance of community.